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What to do if you are thinking about separating from your spouse

19th November 2018

Make a Plan Understand your finances, both yours and your spouses. This includes what debts and hire purchase agreements you both have. This will help you practically plan for your future as a single person. It also enables you to gradually take back the reigns and be responsible for your own...
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Silver Weddings

14th November 2018

Lately, I have noticed a lot of weddings where the couple have been together for decades. So naturally, curiosity got the better of me and I started to ask – why? It seems the main reason is inheritance tax planning. As spouses inherit their partner's assets tax-free. Simple and as practical...
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How to have respectful discussions with your Ex

7th November 2018

    1.Think long term. You do not have to win every battle;   2. Set boundaries; 3. Pause and count to 10 before you speak. If you want help with communicating with your Ex in a productive way then book an initial chat with me...
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How do you know if you are in a high conflict divorce?

7th November 2018

Usually, the telltale signs are:-name-callingbelittlingsilent treatmentwithdrawal of affectionlack of emotional and physical supportcontrolling behaviourfinancial abuse These indicators are usually present during the marriage but become worse on separation.  You are not alone. And it is not your fault and do deserve support Recognising you are in a high conflict divorce can help you prepare...
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Exploring Your Options

29th October 2018

Some people feel that ending unhealthy marriages is always wrong, but this cannot be so.  Life is supposed to be as good as we can make it for ourselves and for those around us. We all are given choices, and chances, and we need to make the most of those, not...
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