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What NOT to do in a divorce

8th December 2020

Divorce is hard enough Don’t make it harder by engaging in play power games to gain an advantage over your ex. everything becomes that much more intense. Don't be a vindictive ex with a "win at all costs" attitude. If power play happens in your divorce, there are few things that...
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WHAT MAKES A GOOD FAMILY SOLICITOR

26th November 2020

  Yesterday I received a beautiful thank you card and a bunch of flowers from a client (Mr G) that I had helped through the divorce process. His case had involved a very intensive period of activity over a period of a few months, which were incredibly stressful and upsetting for...
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How do I know if I am in a high conflict marriage?

16th November 2020

How do I know if I am living with a high conflict person? All relationships experience conflict from time to time and more so during periods of stress such as during lockdown There is a big difference between a bad patch in a marriage and a high conflict partner Key...
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WHAT IS ECONOMIC ABUSE IN A MARRIAGE?

4th November 2020

Do you do any of these things:- Preventing a partner from working or training; Ensuring your partner's salary is paid into a joint bank account to which they do not have access; Control/decide how money is spent, including what your partner can buy, closely examine their bank statements/receipts and expect...
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HOW DO I TELL MY SPOUSE I WANT A DIVORCE?

30th October 2020

You have made up your mind your marriage is over and you want a divorce, but how do you tell your spouse this? The best way is on your own and face to face but only if it is safe to do so.   If it's not safe and you are worried...
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